The Trap You Create as a Pickup Artist (PUA)
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by: GabrielAngelo
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Being a "Pickup Artist" (or PUA) can make you out as somebody others don't want to be friends and deal with. What do I mean by this? Well, some of them exhibit a lot of anti-social behaviors, such as a lot of ego-clashing and constantly trying to dominate 1-up the other person every time to show they are the most alpha dominant in the group in hope of trying to get a girl, like it is a battle. Here are 2 lions in the same cage, they will fight each other to the death and won't work together to help each other out. This can create a dark one-sided, unhealthy obsession, and you will wonder why your progress with women does not equate to your happiness. I mean gosh, just relax, it's NOT just about getting the girls. It's about enjoying the presence of others and meeting great people you can add to your social circle who will always have your back, and the girls will naturally appear in your life. You can be the egotistic, self-professed most important guy in the world when you go out...but look in the mirror? Nobody gives a $hit! Everybody can try to show they are the dominant one in the room and the most alpha, but truth be told, nobody really cares how commanding you behave; in fact, they might even find it try hard. So why don't you instead abandon your ego and make the other person feel special and let them feel their worth, and they will love you for it and you will be cool in their eyes, unlike those who are trying to compete for it out in social gatherings where people just want to let go and have a good time? You see, these aggressive ways of conducting yourself were once used to get things we wanted back in our ancestral time, but they no longer serve us in the modern, more civilized world. There are more boundaries that restrict these human behaviors (for instance the law, you can push it near the edge, but you can't break it) so we have to be socially aware and skilled. Yes, that is pretty much the first thing we are told in becoming a more attractive man with women is to be dominant, but what is dominance? A lot of people miscalibrated being dominant and confident with being a control freak and don't know how to social calibrate their dominance because you can take it too far to being antagonistically aggressive. A better way is to be what I called "Friendly Assertive (F.A.)""; you can still be dominant but under the radar, without getting the other person on their guard and threatened. I will dwell more into this in the next article, so not only can you use it whenever you are out attracting girls, but will also help you improve your leadership skills!
Sobre o Autor
Gabriel Angelo runs http://www.socialnatural.com, with the unique approach to dating and meeting women, by focusing on developing your "social skills" to be the most socially savvy person you can be, not just with women...but everybody. Although the arts are primarily related to dating and attracting women, they can be applied to other aspects of your life from social, dating, personal, and even professional. For more information, please visit http://www.socialnatural.com.
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